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016: Gary Mahler & A Woman’s Sovereignty

March 3, 2016 By Arminda

GaryMahler

Gary Mahler & A Woman’s Sovereignty

The All Arminda Show

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Is it unusual that I’m bringing in a man to talk about women? Not this man, methinks 🙂

What can you look forward to learning?

The woman who knows her power and isn’t afraid of being and showing herself to the world — the world changes because of her

That value, sovereignty, inheritance resides within each of us — and only our stories get in the way

Unless and until I love and value myself, will I be the sovereign of my life and when I step into that value I will bless everyone around me because I don’t need them to be love because I already am love

Loving ourselves is such a deeply powerful experience and you’re the only one who can do it

How to Increase Your Power

  1. Notice what you do and who you be
  2. Choose different
  3. Take actionable steps to live the life you imagine
  4. Choose you

Future Vision Exercise

  1. List all the things you’re grateful for (read daily)
  2. Write personal “I am” statement (read daily)
  3. Live it

Choosing YOU

  1. This is who I say I am, now I only have to choose it
  2. Know your value
  3. Create your sovereignty
  4. Be around men who appreciate everything you bring
  5. Be who you need to be and you’ll attract the right sort of men

Gary references both Steve Hardison & Steve Chandler, remarkable men who have impacted countless lives with their love and service.

Gary’s Bio

Besides women’s surf retreats,  we create bespoke events for team building, leadership work, and executive groups: 3 day events in Malibu & 5 day events in Hawaii.

Gary works with highly-driven people to do that thing they want with all their heart, that thing they might not know how to describe yet. That thing that scares the hell out of them.

He challenges how his clients see themselves, think about themselves and believe in themselves.  Gary firmly believes and lives the principle: when you change the way you think about yourself and you change the way you behave, your life WILL transform. He will never, ever let you forget what you tell him is important to you. When you are ready, he’ll be your Life’s Purpose Operations Manager, building your dreams together.

Filed Under: Blog, Radio Show, The All Arminda Show Tagged With: choices, Gary Mahler, love, love of self, power, powerful woman, relationships, self love, self-honoring, sovereignty, surfing, unapologetic, value, voice, women

011: Kamin Samuel Interview

November 21, 2015 By Arminda

Kamin Samuel Interview

The All Arminda Virtual Show

Kamin Samuel Interview

I love Kamin Samuel. Really. She’s remarkable. This was my second opportunity to interview her about money and money fears and our relationship with money. I encourage you to listen to our first conversation, recorded with the astonishing Elatia Abate. (I’m not at all biased when it comes to my friends, as you can tell.)

During this discussion, Kamin and I spend a lot of time discussing the power of language and the words we speak and what that has to do with money.

We also get to talk about wealth and abundance and what those two words’ meanings include and the energy of money.

Kamin’s Recommended System for Increasing Wealth:

  1. Read “The Wealth Exercise” from The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy.
  2. Each morning do “The Wealth Exercise” for at least 30 seconds, ideally a few minutes. Kamin only uses the word wealth. Ask yourself, “what would it feel like to have…”
  3. Write down any inspirations or ideas that come forward, like to call or email someone, get your resume together, make an appointment of some kind
  4. Take action. The goal is to take action that day and watch what magic can happen.
  5. HAVE FUN and step into the flow of experiencing more wealth and success in your life. Enjoy!

I’m also excited to tell you Kamin and I have a couple of surprises up our sleeves coming to you soon. If you have additional questions for Kamin, please let me know!

Abundance is not something we acquire; it is something we tune into.

— Wayne Dyer

Links

Who Moved My Cheese by Spencer Johnson

The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy

Loving you,
arminda

Filed Under: Blog, The All Arminda Show Tagged With: abundance, barriers to wealth, Elatia Abate, fear, judgement, Kamin Samuel, lack, language, money, money fear, power of words, service, value, wealth, wealth creation, what if amazing

Who Do You Think You Are?

October 27, 2015 By Arminda

Do you ever hear that voice inside your head challenging your worth, your value, your credentials to proceed in the direction you’re heading? Here’s a short video with a response you can use every single time that voice comes calling.

Filed Under: Ask Arminda Videos, Blog Tagged With: be amazing, choices, create, create your world, fear, value, voice in my head, worth

Pizza Power

September 28, 2015 By Arminda

Pizza Power

I’m writing to you from Chicago, Illinois, where pizza is a pretty big deal.

I love pizza.

Dairy, however, does not love me, and this teeny little barrier often prevents me from eating a traditional pizza with cheese on top.

On rare occasions I find a pizza place with vegan cheese as an option and on those occasions I am always in the mood for a slice.

Blaze Fast Fire’d Pizza on E Ontario Street in Chicago is just such an establishment, where building custom pizzas is what they do best.

Their process is simple: pick your sauce, cheese, and toppings and watch it bake.

My turn: I asked my server if she would please put on a pair of clean gloves before handling my pizza dough. With a genuine smile she happily obliged.

Regarding the sauce, everything I saw had cheese floating on top and when I told her I cannot have any dairy she immediately whisked my round of dough to the opposite end of the line where a separate cheese-free container of sauce was waiting.

After the vegan cheese was applied I selected several additional toppings to complete my custom pie.

While my pizza baked in the flames, the cashier was nothing but kindness and complimented me on my eyes and thanked me for coming in tonight.

The young man in charge of removing my pizza from the oven and slicing it before putting it in the box called me over to his workstation to show me the pizza cutter he used was one they reserve for pizzas with the vegan cheese so as not to contaminate with cheese and/or meat from the other pizzas.

As I left with my pizza box in-hand, all three of those young people thanked me again for coming.

The system those employees used demonstrates exactly the way for any business, regardless of industry, to increase sales: don’t sell, serve.

  • They served me by honoring my request for clean gloves.
  • They heard my dairy issue and provided a custom sauce option for me.
  • They recognized my dietary difference & offered toppings that might be useful for my needs.
  • They saw me as a person and complimented something unique in me.
  • They included me in their process to show me they respect what differentiates me.

Don’t focus on a number. Don’t see potential dollar signs above your clients’ heads. Don’t rush to convince them what they need, according to you. Don’t focus on your budget. And don’t wait for the phone to ring.

  • Serve your clients.
  • Give knowledge, time, a call, recommendations, observations, something extra, with no expectation of a sale.
  • Hear their stories.
  • Ask what would be useful for THEM and not for you.
  • See them as unique and with unique qualities, strengths, and needs.
  • Include them in your conversations and respect them as a valuable part of your organization.

Do not try to sell them a pizza.
Just love them for being in front of you and notice how pretty their eyes look to you.

Your tip jar will always overflow.

Filed Under: Blog, Coaching, Weekly Wisdom, Writing Tagged With: blaze pizza chicago, customer service, increase profits, increase sales, pizza, sales, selling, serve, value

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