Being On Purpose
By Arminda
Do you believe your “decision maker” is broken?
When you don’t trust yourself to make decisions, you aren’t making any decisions because you’re not willing to make a choice for fear of risking making the wrong choice.
Full stop.
No decision is final and when you watch this video I’ll provide you with some different perspective on all the choices we get to make along the journey.
By Arminda
What is commitment? No, really. When you truly COMMIT to something — what does that look and feel like? In this video we’ll discuss that specific question AND I have a special gift for you at the end of the video!
By Arminda
When we are rigidly attached to an outcome we set ourselves up for failure. Events are just neutral; they have meaning only when we assign meaning to the event. We can choose responses, rather than being attached to an expectation of others’ behavior or an event.
Planes, Trains & Automobiles is the classic movie reference I make in this episode!
By Arminda
Before you know the difference between being a “pro” and an amateur, you wonder about how you spend your time during your business day. A lot of colleagues and/or “others” are lunching together and so you think that’s what professionals do: they lunch. The question is never whether to accept a lunch invitation. The question is whether to turn pro. I reference Steven Pressfield‘s book, Turning Pro, and highly recommend you read it! I also reference the personal versus your professional self video.
By Arminda
Just because you’ve been running on a treadmill doesn’t negate the benefits of that exercise. And just because you discover you’re “still” working on a recurring theme in your life doesn’t negate the significant work you’ve already done. Keep running. You’re doing great work.
By Arminda
So often we think we’re serving, when in reality we’re caught in the middle of self-sacrifice and become disgruntled because of the very acts of “service” we’re rendering. Isn’t service a good thing? How can you tell the difference between the two?
By Arminda
When you’ve set your goal and you think you’re on target to achieve it and something disrupts you along your path — what do you do? Many of us get upset, frustrated and angry at ourselves, we question our ability to get anything done the “right” way and oftentimes use the disruption as the sign for us to quit altogether.
Before you do any of those things, watch this video.
By Arminda
What does it mean to cast a vote for yourself? Watch this video to find out and to determine whether you’ll vote for you!
Arminda references Jason Goldberg of meometry.com and highly encourages you to check out the amazing work he’s doing.
Also mentioned are stickers and Arminda previously recorded an Ask Arminda episode all about sticker charts!
By Arminda
When a situation arises we tend to immediately see the negative and the LACK: what we don’t have because of what’s happened TO us.
Author Lynne Twist provides some invaluable insight around this tendency when she suggests,
“True abundance flows from enough; never from more.”
Join me as I break this concept down into four real-life scenarios and how we might apply the wisdom of “enough.”
Loving you,
arminda
By Arminda
Do you ever hear that voice inside your head challenging your worth, your value, your credentials to proceed in the direction you’re heading? Here’s a short video with a response you can use every single time that voice comes calling.
allarminda.com | 2024