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Let’s Talk About Goals

February 8, 2016 By Arminda

Let's Talk About Goals

Steve Chandler said,

It’s not what a goal IS that matters; it’s what a goal DOES. So when you think of this goal, what does it do for you? Your goals are creations; you create goals to serve yourself. The goal is supposed to serve you.

WHAT?!!!!

Back up. Rewind. Reread.

No wonder we get discouraged and don’t feel excited about the novel we committed to write, or the gym membership we paid to use, or the sales number we pulled out of a hat, or the company projection we’re anticipating, or the global domination we intend to execute.

When you think you’re not motivated to act on that goal it has little to nothing to do with you; it’s the goal, itself. Chances are you set the goal because of what it represents and not for what it does.

I’m all about vision and creating amazing things AND I know I can’t jump farther than I can jump.

Let me put it another way: If I’m not walking around excited about what I’m creating and in the act of DOING it then I know my goals are clearly under the IS column and not the DOES column.

Right now is a perfect time to review your goals. Are they serving you, or is it just a goal for the sake of being a goal?

LITMUS TEST

Are you looking for ways to motivate yourself toward actively accomplishing your goal?

Do you feel “less than” or embarrassed because you’re not working toward your goal?

Does looking at or thinking about your goal incite fear, frustration, overwhelm or excuses?

SOLUTION

Create a smaller goal that DOES for you what a self-help book never will: keeps you in action in your own life.

That, my friend, is serving you.

#thatwaseasy

Filed Under: Blog, Weekly Wisdom, Writing Tagged With: accomplishment, achievement, create, failure, goals, motivation, serve, service, Steve Chandler

Time Management

September 11, 2015 By Arminda

If you’re like most of us, you’ve experienced moments (or vast spans) of your life when you believe you struggled with time management. Maybe it was during your university years or when you wanted to write that novel.

Let’s dispel the myth of time, all of it.

Filed Under: Ask Arminda Videos, Blog Tagged With: accomplishment, achievement, priorities, priority, procrastination, success, time, time management

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