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Creating Positive: Day 16 of 21

February 29, 2012 By Arminda Leave a Comment

Plaque, gingivitis, cavities, drills, scraping, flossing: these words haunt me every six months when it’s time for another visit to my dentist. Seriously? Wasn’t I just there? Is it really that important? I can literally create a list of 100 places I would rather be than sitting in that chair, with a bib tied around my neck, and my teeth so exposed. I literally cringe when the dentist walks into the room to examine the hygienist’s handiwork (the cleanliness of my mouth). I don’t do well with bad grades, and if I get a poor mark on my record, I don’t think I can handle the shame of knowing I’m just not that strong of a flosser yet. I don’t know if it’s because of the Dopamine Challenge, or if I’m simply more mature since my last checkup? Nah. I’m sure it’s the Dopamine Challenge! Anyway, I checked off meditating while I was in the chair, and didn’t even have a tummy ache from being too tense when it was all over. And my dental report card today: Beautiful teeth. Still no cavities. And remember, flossing is your friend!

The Other Three

  1. Exercise – done
  2. Meditate – done
  3. Kindness – done

Gratitudes

  1. Hearing my nephews sing
  2. Family dog pile first thing in the morning
  3. No cavities
  4. Connecting with our clients
  5. Positive results from action plans
  6. Running
  7. Kind & generous offer of time from a friend
  8. Returned phone calls

Positive Experience

We work with a wide variety of clients and companies, helping their leadership teams grow stronger together, while providing individual managers the tools they need to be effective leaders within an ever-changing business environment. While it’s important for us to provide appropriate guidance and feedback when in a training environment, it’s equally important to provide experiences that are memorable. Today we facilitated an exercise that required a highly-interactive ball toss between the entire leadership team, and resulted in their discussion of some obvious parallels to what we as leaders experience daily. I enjoyed observing the exercise, and loved the conversation that followed. Seeing firsthand the impact of our programs for this client put a smile on my face.

Filed Under: Blog, Coaching, Happiness, Writing Tagged With: Dentist, Dopamine Challenge, happiness, meditation, positive, Shawn Achor

Creating Positive: Day 3 of 21

February 16, 2012 By Arminda 9 Comments

I’m grateful for all the continued chatter in various online venues to raise awareness of the Dopamine Challenge. I am also grateful for everyone reading and participating. Many of you aren’t sharing here with me, but be sure and keep a written record of your positive experiences and your new gratitudes each day. I welcome your participation anytime you want to share. And for those of you just now discovering our quest – start today! There was nothing magical about starting on February 13, except I had time over the weekend to gather my thoughts in preparation!

 

Gratitudes

  1. Cheryl shared with me another great TED Talk by Drew Dudley
  2. Sally illuminated for me a new definition of meditation
  3. Access to the cultural arts
  4. Having the capacity to perform acts of kindness
  5. Time and freedom to pursue personal interests
  6. Hearing from a sweet friend
  7. The value of talking with my daughter

Positive Experience

My positive experience took less than five minutes to transpire, but the result of a brief conversation on Twitter has filled my heart all day long. Yesterday I mentioned that for the purpose of this exercise, meditation is the most challenging for me. Today, my friend Sally reminded me “how often we trick ourselves into thinking we’re not doing something right just because others do it different.” Sally helped me see that meditation can be “presence in moment,” which she explained can be as simple as “Pausing, seeing, feeling, being at one with, carrying that with you and yes, gratitude – it’s definitely a method!”

Has anyone else experienced these beautiful moments of meditation? I am grateful to Sally for illuminating for me the possibilities of presence and meditation.

Filed Under: Blog, Coaching, Happiness, Writing Tagged With: Dopamine Challenge, Drew Dudley, gratitude, meditation, TED Talks

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