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System Fail

February 2, 2015 By Arminda

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Systems, organization, programs and checklists have always been my thing. My entire corporate career (who am I kidding? my entire LIFE) was built in and around systems and checklists. I loved the orderliness of it all; the sense of grand accomplishment at checking off my boxes as I tracked my way to another completed report, sale, achievement, or goal.

Until I hit my wall.

That wall of frustration and overwhelm and exhaustion that felt like all I was doing was living for my lists, yet never quite satisfied with me. There in the middle of it all.

Systems can be wonderful inasmuch as they are implemented and used to support us: the person using the system or part of the bigger program. The tricky part comes when we get lost in the system.

Because the minute I’m serving a system instead of a system serving me, then that is the very minute to shut it down.

At the very least, it’s a red flag to reevaluate the role of the program or guiding principle. Is there a reset button you can employ? What if you look at things from a different angle? Is there another function for that program?

I’ve shut down more than one system in my life and I’ve revamped others based on a current need. There will be more reworks in my future, as my world evolves.

Remember, there will never be a system, program or process more important than you.

Is there a system waving its red flag at you?

Filed Under: Blog, Weekly Wisdom Tagged With: choices, happiness, systems

What’s Your Different?

November 26, 2014 By Arminda

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I LOVE being noticed because I’m different.
Because what I offer my clients is different.
Because I have my own way of putting myself together.
Because I don’t subscribe to the conventional wisdom.
Because what I do works for me.
Because my different is exactly what I love most about me.

What’s your different?

Filed Under: Blog, Weekly Wisdom Tagged With: because, choices, different, happiness

Linear Happiness?

November 13, 2014 By Arminda

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The “achievement” of happiness is not a linear equation.

You will never be happy when ___________ happens, or arrives, or is completed, or you get the idea.

Happiness happens because you create it in spite of the line you’re walking.

Being happy is a conscious choice you get to make every single day from the inside out.

Choose you. Choose happy.

Filed Under: Blog, Weekly Wisdom Tagged With: choices, happiness

The Sky is Falling!

October 23, 2014 By Arminda

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An acorn fell on my head today.

The exact same thing happened once upon a time to Chicken Little (from the classic children’s book of the same name) and she immediately told herself that the sky was falling and then proceeded to run around telling the same (made up) story to anyone who would listen!

WARNING: spoiler alert if you keep reading past this point!

Long before they reached their destination, Chicken Little & her friends believed another made up story (which was missing a few subtle plot points) and ended up as Foxy Loxy’s permanent dinner guests.

Because Chicken Little dramatically overreacted to an upsetting incident that was out of her control she got herself and all of her friends killed.

The sky was never falling.

Upsetting and out-of-our control incidents happen all the time. How many of us make up stories when we get hit on the head with an acorn? Other than a temporary insult to your noggin, that acorn doesn’t impede your progress for long.

Unless you choose to stop everything and claim a falling sky.

Choose to tell a different story.

Your sky is never falling.

Filed Under: Blog, Weekly Wisdom Tagged With: acorn, Chicken Little, choices, life narrative

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